United Effort Needed to Confront and Overcome Family Violence Crisis
According to Minister Chhour, family violence is not only a criminal matter but a societal challenge that demands awareness, compassion, and community responsibility.
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Family violence continues to cast a long and painful shadow over communities across the country, affecting individuals of every age, income level, and cultural background. In a renewed call to action, Minister for the Prevention of Family and Sexual Violence, Karen Chhour, is urging the nation to recognise the seriousness of this issue and to take collective steps—large and small—to prevent violence, support victims, and drive meaningful change.
According to Minister Chhour, family violence is not only a criminal matter but a societal challenge that demands awareness, compassion, and community responsibility. “All of us have an important part to play in preventing and responding to family violence, leading change and supporting friends and family to be safe and heal,” she emphasised. While the government must spearhead legal responses and systemic reforms, progress also depends on the willingness of individuals to acknowledge warning signs, listen without judgement, and guide those affected toward help.
Communities, neighbours, colleagues, and extended families are often the first to witness subtle shifts in behaviour—withdrawal, fearfulness, visible injuries, or sudden changes in routine—that may signal something is wrong. As Minister Chhour notes, people outside the home frequently recognise signs of abuse before a victim feels ready to speak openly. “It is on us to ask if a person is OK and help them get the support they need,” she said.
Victims commonly turn to friends or family before seeking formal support services. This makes it essential for everyday citizens to understand not only how to recognise the indicators of abuse, but also how to respond in a manner that prioritises safety and emotional wellbeing. A calm conversation, the offer of a safe space, or simply reassuring someone that they deserve to be safe can serve as the vital first step toward healing.
Minister Chhour also stresses the importance of equipping “helpers”—those who receive a disclosure of violence—with the confidence and knowledge to offer support. Many people hesitate to intervene out of fear of saying the wrong thing or making matters worse. However, guidance is available. Nearly every community across the country hosts organisations dedicated to supporting both victims and those worried about someone they care about. These services provide practical advice, safety planning, crisis interventions, and pathways to longer-term recovery.
“No one should feel ashamed to ask for help, even if they think the abuse is not serious or has been happening for a long time,” the Minister stated. She highlighted that the courage required to speak up is itself a powerful act of resistance against violence. Likewise, it is an act of solidarity when communities respond with empathy and support rather than judgement.
Breaking the cycle of violence requires more than government policy—it requires a society willing to challenge harmful attitudes, encourage open dialogue, and protect those at risk. Minister Chhour’s message is clear: national change begins with personal action. By understanding the signs, listening to those in need, and connecting them to professional support, every citizen can become part of the movement to ensure safety, dignity, and justice for all.
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